In the context of my busy urologic practice, I am often asked if there is any way to make male orgasms last longer. This area is one where men are jealous of women. I call it Venus Envy. For reasons unknown, nature designed humans so that women can experience prolonged wavelike orgasms, while men can experience brief and thunderous orgasms, five to seven seconds in duration. Wouldn’t it be great, men dream, if we could make that ecstatic sensation last a full minute? Five minutes? An hour? So far, no one has come up with a way to prolong orgasm. However, we have found ways to delay it. Continue Reading
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Delaying Ejaculation: A Urologist Tells You How
It is impossible to come up with a universal definition of premature ejaculation because so much variation exists among individuals. I have met women who are perfectly satisfied with intercourse that lasts two or three minutes, while others are frustrated when their partners cannot last more than fifteen or twenty. Do you and your partner feel that you reach orgasm too quickly? If so, there are many practical steps you can take to solve the problem. Continue Reading




