In my many years of urologic practice, I have had thousands of conversations with women about the most intimate details of their sex lives. They have told me things they have related to no other person, including their most esoteric sexual practices and wildest fantasies. For the most part, women do not ever seriously express to me a strong preference for one kind of penis over another. Believe me, I have asked! Continue Reading
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What Kind of Penis Do Women Want?
Sex at Any Age: Attitude Is the Key to Penis Longevity
Until recently, our society’s image of aging usually excluded sex. It was considered unseemly for older people to talk about it, much less do it. I know elderly people who have to sneak around to have sex just as they did when they were teenagers because they know it will be frowned upon by their peers and especially by their own children. Other older people stop having sex altogether because they buy into the notion that they are supposed to give up sex. They suppress their sexuality because it somehow seems inappropriate to express it. Continue Reading
Size Indeed Matters, Suggests Male Attractiveness Study
Here we go again: Does size matter? Was Freud wrong when he said, “Women have penis envy”? In my experience, women have penis curiosity, and men—wondering if their penis is long enough or wide enough—have penis envy. Freud asked, “What does a woman want?” A new study from Australia suggests that she wants a guy who is tall and well endowed. Continue Reading
The Health Benefits of Having Sex
Nothing is more wonderful for the human spirit, body, and mind than the free and uninhibited expression of sexuality. Nothing is more glorious than the joyful sharing of physical pleasure between two generous, enthusiastic human beings. A current plague of confusion and self-consciousness causes most men to have less sex than they would like, and they enjoy the sex they do have a lot less. Continue Reading




