Monthly Archives: May 2011

Good in Bed, Always: The Superpotent Man Knows How to Handle Stress

May 27  |  Blog, Dr. Danoff, Penis Power book, Sexuality, superpotency, Urology  |  Dr. Dudley Danoff

Superpotent men do not succumb to the debilitating power of anxiety or depression, and that confidence includes the bedroom. They often find themselves in situations that other men may find inhibiting, such as being with an aggressive sexual partner, or someone who prefers unusual sexual practices.

To a man with P.W., these might be stressful situations that elicit fear and self-doubt.  But for the superpotent man, they are challenges, and he responds to them like an athlete who is up against a worthy opponent (or one who has teamed up with a great partner). New and unusual sexual situations bring out the best in him.

How does the superpotent man keep his cool? Continue Reading

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How to Be Superpotent, Part II

May 25  |  Blog, Dr. Danoff, Penis Power book, Sexuality, superpotency, Urology  |  Dr. Dudley Danoff

In my last post, I introduced the concept of superpotency. Today, I’ll get into more detail by providing examples and explaining how you can achieve superpotency yourself.

Famous Superpotent Men


Take a look at some of the famous movie stars who are considered sexy, even though they are not blessed with good looks. Look at the French actor Gerard Depardieu and the American actor Owen Wilson. They are both average looking men with doughy faces and oversized noses. Yet there is no denying their sex appeal.

I do not know either of them, but I would be willing to wager they possess abundant Penis Power™, and not just because of their celebrity lifestyle.

How about Jack Nicholson? He is balding and pot-bellied and has wild eyebrows and a face no Greek sculptor would use as a model. But he has something that women and men find irresistible.

There is also the famous example of the film producer Carlo Ponti. Forty years ago, he was a small, bald, ordinary-looking man. He was the last man you would expect to see with a gorgeous, talented, voluptuous, sexy woman. To everyone’s surprise, Ponti married the most desired woman in the world at that time—Sophia Loren. And she stayed married to him.

Superpotency is Not About Looks


On the flip side, there are many examples of gorgeous hunks who satisfy every aesthetic criterion but who do not arouse attention. These men are not necessarily sexy.

I remember one day when a patient walked into my office. He was an incredible physical specimen—a professional athlete with a body of solid muscle and a face you would expect to see on the cover of GQ.

I assumed he was the kind of guy who had girls falling at his feet. So I teased the women in my office by asking which ones would like to meet him. There were no takers. I was shocked and surprised when one of the women explained, “It’s all on the outside. He just doesn’t have it.”

These stories demonstrate that superpotency is not about looks. If you develop the self-confidence and strength that is the foundation of Penis Power™, you will find that you look much better in your mind’s eye.

Any man who desires this power will take responsibility for his physical appearance by maintaining a healthy diet and a healthy regimen of exercise. Ultimately, by making the necessary changes in lifestyle and perspective, those physical attributes that may have been a source of self-doubt in the past will suddenly have more appeal.

Superpotency Is Not About Success or Wealth


Superpotent men tend to be relatively successful in their chosen fields because their personal qualities foster achievement. However, being a man of wealth and status does not qualify you as superpotent.

I cannot deny the fact that many people are attracted to rich and powerful men just because they are rich and powerful. But the appeal of wealth and status is a superficial appeal and, nine times out of ten, this superficiality does not translate into genuine qualities worthy of admiration.

Once the fancy car is parked in its Beverly Hills garage, the $3,000 suit is hung in the closet, and the silk underwear is removed, the rich man might be much less potent than the struggling artist in a garret or the assembly line worker in his tract home.

Penis Power™ comes from within.

The only form of abundance that really counts is an attitude of abundance—an attitude of self-confidence and control toward oneself and one’s sexuality.

My patients and acquaintances are some of the richest and most influential people in the world. Many of these men have true Penis Power™. A far greater number have power in their offices, but they are plagued by penis weakness. They have personal insecurities in their minds and in the rest of their lives, especially at home. At the same time, I know ordinary men who lead humble lives and yet are superpotent from head to toe.

I hope that all men and women will come to see that Penis Power™ does not derive from owning mansions, yachts, and jewels, or by driving Bentleys and buying expensive bottles of champagne at nightclubs. Penis Power emanates from the heart and soul of a man. It is far more valuable than the costliest luxury. In a word, it is priceless.

Penis Power Is About Inner Qualities

The most important point to take away from this discussion is that you are in control of your penis and your sexual destiny. The primary characteristics of a Superpotent Man are within the reach of every man.

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How to Be Superpotent, Part I

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May 20  |  Blog, Dr. Danoff, Penis Power book, Sexuality, superpotency, Urology  |  Dr. Dudley Danoff

As a practicing urologist, I have been privy to the intimate details of hundreds of thousands of patients’ lives. I have analyzed their physical health, their mental health, their business life, and their social life. In addition, colleagues, friends, and family members have taken advantage of my professional status to discuss their sex lives.

Over time and after many, many conversations, I have come to develop a profile of a special personality that is worthy of its own chapter in my book: the Superpotent Man.

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The Body’s Most Unpredictable Organ-Or Is It?

May 18  |  Anatomy, Blog, Dr. Danoff, Penis Power book, Sexuality, Urology  |  Dr. Dudley Danoff

Most people’s opinion of the penis can pretty much be summed up in the age-old saying, “It has a mind of its own.” This is one of those classic clichés I constantly hear from my patients and friends in reference to their penises. This statement reflects the issues surrounding what I call the penis mystique—that curious realm where the hard data of biology meets the unpredictable and mysterious realm of the mind and emotions.

One of the reasons we are so fascinated by that “junior partner,” as a lawyer patient of mine calls his, is that it does seem to think for itself. What other organ grows to several times its normal size and then shrinks again, sometimes despite your intentions and without warning?

What other organ is so unpredictable? Continue Reading

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A Wake Up Call: Sex Should Not Be Stressful!, Part II

May 13  |  Blog, Dr. Danoff, Penis Power book, PW, Sex and Health, Sexuality, Urology  |  Dr. Dudley Danoff

In my last post, I talked about sex being a good form of stress relief. Men who occasionally or chronically suffer from PW sometimes put too much pressure on themselves to perform to a certain standard. I want to reiterate in this post that understanding PW and the penis is not just for men.

Penis Power™ is for Women, Too


My book will also help women become experts in the nurturing and care of the penises in their lives. It will empower them with the information to understand the men they look to for their own satisfaction.

Superpotency: Achieving Maximum Satisfaction


Used properly, the lessons in Penis Power™, and on this blog, will help you become superpotent. This does not mean you will have a King Kong–like erection for a week straight. Nor does it imply you will become some stereotypical stud.

I do not define superpotency according to arbitrary standards of frequency, endurance, or technique. That would be self-defeating. It would intimidate men more than they are already and would increase self-doubt and penis weakness.

The concept of Penis Power™ means achieving maximum enjoyment and satisfaction for both you and your partner, as determined by your own standards, desires, and tastes.

Penis Power™ means harnessing the full potential of your penis by treating it with all the respect and appreciation it deserves. This will do more for a man’s self-esteem than a year’s worth of self-help workshops. It will do more for the sorry state of sexual relationships than any talk show, how-to video, or any program found on television today.

My message is simple:

  • Your penis is as big as you think it is; if you think big, you are big.
  • Your penis behaves the way you tell it to, and you can learn how to control it.
  • You are as potent as you think you are.
  • You are okay, and your penis is okay.

It is important to acknowledge that a minority of men have medical conditions that impede the normal sexual function of their penis. With today’s medical advancements, we can help them overcome many of these organic penile infirmities.

It is important to be aware of the conditions that impair your ability, as well as other physical factors that can affect your penis. Unless you are one of those exceptions, you do not need specialized medical care. You do not need intensive psychotherapy. What you need are facts. You need a basic lesson in Penis 101.

To become the man you want to be, to live the rest of your life as a superpotent man, all you need is a change in attitude and some information on how to improve your sexual functioning.

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A Wake Up Call: Sex Should Not Be Stressful!, Part I

May 11  |  Blog, Dr. Danoff, Penis Power book, PW, Sex and Health, Sexuality, Urology  |  Dr. Dudley Danoff

The saddest part of PW is that millions of men, as well as their partners, are depriving themselves of full sexual satisfaction. Nothing is more wonderful than the free and uninhibited expression of sexuality. Nothing is more glorious than the joyful sharing of physical pleasure between two generous, enthusiastic human beings. The current plague of confusion and self-consciousness causes most men to have less sex than they would like. And they enjoy the sex they do have a lot less.

Sex should be a fun and relaxing part of life, not a chore. It is life’s cheapest luxury. For too many men and women it has become a worrisome task—a source of tension, a burden. It is as if sex is a problem to solve or a test they have to take. Sex should be a simple, natural pleasure that erases worries, tensions, and burdens.

As the product of one of the best medical educations our country can offer, and as a urologist with a busy practice, I want to drive home the message that using your penis for the purpose nature intended is not only one of life’s great pleasures, but is also good for your health in general. Continue Reading

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Self-Doubt is the Enemy of Good Sex

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May 6  |  Blog, Dr. Danoff, Penis Power book, PW, Sexuality, Urology  |  Dr. Dudley Danoff

Tell me if this sounds familiar:

Self-doubt leads to penis weakness:  you can’t get or maintain an erection, or your sex is somehow unsatisfactory. This bad experience increases your self-doubt, which means that the next time you have sex, your anxiety level is even higher, making the chances of the problem repeating itself even greater.

This is a vicious cycle.

Most men who go to their doctors complaining of penis problems are either perfectly normal and don’t realize it, or are inflating their own difficulties by allowing themselves to get sucked into the “quicksand” of doubt.

It is amazing how much simple education and a strong dose of reassurance can do for men who suffer from self-doubt.

Why is PW So Prevalent Today?


I have witnessed an increased development of penis weakness over the last forty years. In my mind, it is worth analyzing the social conditions that have created this outbreak.

One could argue that it has always been this way, or maybe even worse. One could also argue that I have seen an increase in penis weakness in recent years only because men today feel more comfortable talking about it.

However, neither of these statements is correct. The truth is, there are powerful social and historical factors that have contributed to, and continue to create, penis weakness among men today.
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